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Monday, November 22, 2010

My Brother Peter has been working on this bridge for years----it is complete and he is interviewed

Unique Harpswell bridge to reopen Saturday The Forecaster    (click here for link to paper story was published and more pix)

This pix is of  Pete walking the bridge just before it opens to traffic


HARPSWELL — After more than two years, residents on Saturday will once again be able to traverse the one-of-a-kind cribstone bridge connecting Bailey and Orr's islands.
A ceremony is planned Saturday at 11 a.m. Scheduled guest speakers include Maine Department of Transportation Deputy Commissioner Bruce Van Note, Maine Historic Preservation Commission Director Earle Shettleworth and Harpswell Historical Society President David Hackett.
Following the ceremony, there will be an antique car parade across the bridge, with two rows of cars meeting each other in the middle, Town Administrator Kristi Eiane said. She said town officials are seeking older residents to attend the ceremony and ride in an antique car.
Pete Brown of the DOT said work began in July 2008. A temporary bridge parallel to the cribstone structure has been in place while reconstruction has progressed. Brown said about 200 large stones have been replaced and a new deck constructed at a cost of about $10.5 million – about $500,000 under budget to date.
Removal of the temporary bridge and a "few odds and ends" are expected to be complete next spring, well ahead of the November 2011 projected completion deadline, Brown said.
Some of the replacement stones came from the original quarry in North Yarmouth, but the majority came from a commercial quarry in Sullivan, he said. The original quarry is no longer a commercial quarry and could not produce the amount of stone needed in a timely manner.
The work was completed from the top down, with the first step being removal of the deck, then removal of stones layer-by-layer to reach broken stones, Brown said.
"It's been a joy, actually, for me," he said, adding the community has been patient and considerate during the repair work.
There were a few times a barge blocked the navigation channel while work was being done on the span over the channel, but Brown said construction crews tried to take into account busy times of day so as not to disrupt lobstermen and other ocean-going vessels that frequent the area.
"They were really good about it," he said.
While Brown said he was not nervous about working on the historic bridge, he said it had unique challenges. He said there were a few things that were "difficult to get around."
"It was interesting, but it's pretty simple from a technical standpoint," he said. "It's more stone age than space age."
Brown said community interest in the project was high.
"(The bridge) means something to the people on Orr's and Bailey, there is an affinity," he said. "The community has been very interested. It's the only one of it's kind in the world. To have an $11 million job and not have a complaint of significance is simply amazing."
CPM Constructors of Freeport performed the bridge repairs using an average crew of 25, which has since been reduced to about 15 people, Brown said.
The 1,150-foot cribstone bridge was completed in 1928 under the direction of engineer L. N. Edwards, according to a plaque on the Orr's Island side of the bridge. The unique design allows tidal seawater, boat traffic and ice floes through the bridge without washing it out. The bridge is a National Historic Civil Engineering Landmark.
According to a press release from the DOT, the original stones were transported from the North Yarmouth quarry by boat to Harpswell, then placed using derricks aboard boats. The base of the bridge is supported by underwater granite ledges and spans Will's Gut.

Sunday, November 14, 2010

God is talking, and I am finally listening

For those that have known me for a while, I have not always been the most "god believing" person---luckily for me, that has changed quite a bit over the last few years--but if there was ever a weekend that He is speaking directly to me and giving me "signs", man, is it this weekend!

We attended the Christian Adoption Services' November lunch to celebrate National Adoption Month (Nov) and to celebrate all of the families who had babies placed with them this year----they have this event every  year at this great park Walter Johnson Camp run by the Salvation Army in Denton, NC (about 1 hour from Charlotte).  It was so great to meet up with families who we haven't seen since the last get together in May and to meet all of the new babies. I won't lie, it was VERY HARD sitting there without a baby when we knew almost all of the families who were placed this year----but the one resounding message we heard over and over and over----the wait is hard, but it is all in God's timing as He has a plan, there is a baby out there that is perfect for Matthew and I and it will be worth every second of the wait.  The message is very true, can't say it is easy to live, but it is definitely true.

One freaky story--there is a woman who is also a waiting family here in the Charlotte area that I've gotten to know recently, and she comes up to me just was we walk in and tells me about a dream she had just had earlier this week. In her dream, she met a birthmother--and the birthmother didn't know if the baby was a boy or a girl (this woman who had the dream only wants a girl)......and so the birthmom tells Sonya "if it is a girl I am giving it to you, but if it is a boy, I am giving it to Peggi and Matthew" .  Sonya and I barely see each other, we are on Facebook together/etc and that is really it----so I am hoping that is God talking to us again in his own way--and then I  asked her to have many many more dreams like that!!!  I still have goosebumps over the freakiness of that dream.

So then, Matthew and I attend church this morning and what is the topic of the sermon?? PATIENCE and Preservance. As an example, the pastor even cited "for those longing for a baby" OK, GOD, I HEAR YOU LOUD AND CLEAR!!!!!!  :) 

As a side note, for those that want to support adoption and get some cool Christmas presents for your friends and family and co-workers, check out these hand-made soaps   http://www.brightstarsoaps.etsy.com/

Yesterday was the official 11 month mark of "waiting".  I am truly trying to be patient.  I am also meeting with our agency director soon to review our paperwork.....

Sunday, November 7, 2010

Orphan Sunday

Did you know that November is National Adoption Month?? later this month, there is one day (21st??? I think) that all across the  country HUNDREDS of children from foster care will officially be adopted--there is a big deal at the courthouses/etc..great time.

Also emphasized this month are the orphans around the globe and their need to be adopted/sponsored. I had the  pleasure of representing our agency at a church in Charlotte that recognized Orphan Sunday and National Adoption Month and had a little mini tradeshow of sorts with tables lined up in their hallway with companies who focus on adoption, orphan sponsorship, etc ----I actually had the  chance to give real life testimony to many families who have been called upon to adopt and hopefully encourage them to join us in the adoption process.

The Church was amazing---it is not one that we attend regularly, but I still saw familiar faces! go fish....some folks I work with attend.   And was also able to meet other families who have already adopted thru Christian Adoption Services and they told me their stories and I got to meet their adorable children. 

I also met with a group that runs a home for teens who are faced with unplanned pregnancies and have no where to go. Here at this home, they are housed, given prenatal care, life skills, mentored, and loved during a very difficult time of their lives. 

It was a great day all around. Came home smiling ear to ear after seeing so much GOOD and the new people who are praying for us.....God works in mysterious ways, I am still baffled sometimes at how He does it----but he puts me in places and introduces me to people I would never have met otherwise, and for that I am very grateful.

Wednesday, October 20, 2010

if there is ever a time..............

that I need a little extra prayer, thought, good wish, etc ---today is it.  10-1/2 months waiting and lots of other babies being placed to wonderful families---but there is this little twinge still wondering "why not us?" "what are we doing wrong?"

I know God has a plan. I know there is the "perfect" baby out there for us. I know that we are working on His time, not ours.  I KNOW the other families deserve their bundle of joy just s much as we do.....BUT it doesn't diminish the questions and feelings we are having.

ok pity party is officially over for now.  I'm not looking for sympathy. I am just venting so I can sort of get myself together enough to work today.

So, please send extra prayers to the birthmother that she is healthy and at peace with her decision ---without her being at peace, He can't join us together.

Saturday, October 2, 2010

Adoptive Mommies get together

One of the many many wonderful things about the adoption agency we are working with, is the support system of other families in any of the various stages of adoption--waiting, completing paperwork, already received their child, etc.  Last night a group of women--all from the CAS (Christian Adoption Services) "family" got together for some fellowship, story swapping and good general support of one another! 

There were 2 others like myself in the "waiting" phase- and 3 others who have had babies placed with them already. It was great to hear the stories, the advice, the "what happens" and the expectations of events/things such as getting the call, waiting to hear if the match is truly a match, at the hospital, dealing with the birthmother/birth family after paperwork is signed as well as during the legal risk/revocation period, changes of birth mother relationships after the first year, reactions of own families, how do we keep this a secret for that first week??  etc/etc/etc  we gabbed and ate and gabbed some more for over 3 hours!!

The three things I know waking up this morning: 1) we definitely chose the right agency to work with 2) there are some pretty amazing women out there either in the same boat or have been in this boat, and 3) this wait is "normal" and we must just put it all in God's hands. Thankfully I have done #3 already! As our agency's website says "waiting on god, waiting on placement"  That pretty much sums it up!!!

Sunday, September 5, 2010

Virginia Creeper Trail

We've been saving our vacation time from work for "when the baby comes".....and since it has been 9 months---and still no vacation, no  baby---no time off can make a couple of people CRAZY!  so we took Friday off from work and went to a trail we've been wanting to ride for a while. It is a 34 mile rail-to-trail biking/horsesback trail called the Virginia Creeper Trail. It is kind of split into 2---we went to the 18 mile mark. You actually take a shuttle up the mountain, then bike back down to your car in a tiny town called Demascus, VA.  The ride up was enough to make ANYONE sick--all windy, hairpin turns, no guardrails, huge steep drops (Mindy, was thinking of you!).  However, the scenery was breathtakingly beautiful.  It was supposed to be 98 degrees in Charlotte, so we picked the perfect day to head to the mountains.  It was cool and almost chilly in a few spots.

The ride down takes about 2-3 hours depending on how often you stop, etc and we were riding in some of the most gorgeous scenary imaginable.  Lots of moss covered rocks and trees, the trail followed a creek/stream/small river all the way down, lots of places to stop and fish, rode thru backs of some folks private land, rode over 32 trestles/foot bridges, etc...it was truly god's country. Then at the end a  few cute diners for lunch and ice cream, if you wish. 

It was a great way to clear our heads, feel like human beings again, and have a vacation, even if for only one day. 

Sunday, August 15, 2010

Adoption Update

Many of you have asked what is going on with our adoption journey---all we can say is that it is all in God's hands and we are on His time schedule.  Yes, I admit, I wish he would "hurry up" but what can we do??? He is waiting to place the right and perfect baby with us, and for some reason, that perfect baby isn't ready to be known yet.  We are still "waiting" for a potential birth mother to choose us to parent her child and are actively on the waiting list of families.  We have been officially on this list for 8 months now---so if I were pregnant, I still wouldn't be having the baby yet!  Keep praying for the birthmother to be healthy and be at peace with her extremely courageous decision---she is the one to be praying for, not us.  Without her, we are nothing.  Trust me, when we know something, EVERYONE will know!  Thank you all for the thoughts and wishes---keep them coming!

Goofing off with my 2 favorite kids!

My parents were in town for a brief visit--so we had dinner at Phil and Karen's--here is some pix of Addie, Kevin and me goofing off after dinner.  Aren't they getting soooooo big??? Addie is going to be a Junior in High School this year and Kevin a Freshman! Man, where has the time gone??????

Garden Bounty

We've had a few mis-steps with the garden---mother nature not fully cooperating with us as well as the squirrels and chipmunks thinking our yard and garden is their own personal playground and buffet...but nonetheless, we are picking tomatoes daily and have a few really good crops of cucumbers and squash.  We just planted round 2 for a late season crop of lots of yummy veggies---we tried broccoli, brussel sprouts, collard greens, cabbage as well as round 2 of peppers, tomatoes and squash.  Lettuce will go back in once this awful heat stops and we get a little cooler weather.

Sunday, July 11, 2010

Buffalo visitors

Matthew's niece Liz was in town for work and we had the great pleasure of having her and her friend Susie (or Sujo) over for dinner and a little laundry.  They both work for Bank of America doing loan modifications for people and travel like CRAZY!  It was great to be able to see them when in town!

Saturday, May 15, 2010

homemade pickles

my neighbor received a bunch of produce from her niece and didn't know what to do with it all and asked for my help-----so I took the case of cucumbers and made bread and butter cucumbers!  Wouldn't have been possible without the help of Aunt Nancy and her recipe---thanks Aunt Nancy!  Now I am ready for when my garden comes up to make more pickles and can veggies later this fall!

Tuesday, April 27, 2010

Look what I did!

another "passing the time" activity ---I took up knitting again and kinit this baby blanket!  I haven't held knitting needles since I was about 10 years old----so I found a yarn store, found a fantastic lady named Betsy who was VERY patient with me and re-introduced me to knitting and gave me the pattern to this blanket---and was on call when I needed her--like how to weave in the tails when changing colors, or how on earth do I bind off???? 
in the end, I'm very proud of myself and the end result of my new hobby!!!  dish cloths for everyone for Christmas this year!  ;)

Sunday, April 25, 2010

Spring in North Carolina! it's garden time!

Trying to stay busy and eat healthy all at the same time----one of the easiest and most enjoyable things we've done this year!    Matthew's  been a busy guy building these raised beds--even though we have the land, the drainage is a killer and we lose more plants than survive, so we went mostly raised beds this year.  Here are some pix of our gardens----soon to be filled with tomatoes, peppers (5 types), cucumbers, squash, onions, potatoes, radishes, etc----also pix of our herb garden--I'm very proud of this because I have been totally "winging it" and it keeps coming back and I get to use all of these herbs in cooking! YUM!  Matthew enjoyed making the stepping stones with our neighbor David last year.   The other pix is a box filled with 3 types of lettuce--guess what we are having for dinner??!?

 Also, tonight as I went out to take these pictures---look what I saw slithering across our driveway! YIKES!!!! luckily a great neighbor came over after hearing me scream like a little girl and scooped him up and tranferred mr snake to the end of the road. The gorgeous flowering plant is a lenten rose given to me by a dear friend a few years ago and it is finally blooming--they take a few years to bloom and settle in---I thought I had killed it, and instead it rewarded me by the beautiful sight this year. 

Saturday, March 20, 2010

Babymoon


We needed to get away..it is that simple.  Time to de-stress and go at whatever pace we wanted.  We've been so wound up jumping everytime the phone rings, crazy-eyed staring at construction projects to be done, a to-do list a mile long, it was time to get away before we drove each other crazy (ok, before I drove Matthew crazy).  So we headed to the mountains of Asheville, NC for the weekend.  For those that have never been, it is breathtakingly beautiful and as close to New England as we're going to get down here in the semi-south.  Asheville is known for being the home of the Biltmore Estate--the largest home in America with 250 rooms built by George Vanderbilt. 

While in Asheville, we did enjoy a wonderful gift of a FABULOUS brunch at world renown Grove Park Inn.  http://www.groveparkinn.com/Leisure/Dining/BRDR_Brunch/    Built in 1913, it has become a home away from home for many dignitaries and celebrities.  During the summers of 1935 and ’36, author F. Scott Fitzgerald resided in our Room 441. He’s just one of the American luminaries to have stayed here, a list that includes Harry Houdini, Will Rogers, George Gershwin, Thomas Edison, Eleanor Roosevelt and Henry Ford. Not to mention presidents — William Howard Taft, Woodrow Wilson, Calvin Coolidge, Herbert Hoover, Franklin D. Roosevelt, Dwight D. Eisenhower, Richard M. Nixon, George H. W. Bush, William J. Clinton and Barack H. Obama.  This list doesn't include the celebrities and famous golfers who have also stayed.

The view is FANTASTIC and the clean air demands relaxation as soon as you drive onto the grounds.  What we loved the most was the HUGE fireplaces.  Here we are in the Great Lobby. There are actually elevator shafts built into the back of these fireplaces to hide them to be discreet to the guests.  amazing.

Anyhoo, the weekend was amazing.  The weather was great---a bit chilly, but sunny so we didn't care.  We walked around the downtown area of Asheville for the day checking out all of the cool stores, art galleries, general store, etc. Never had so much great, inspired food in one weekend.  And it was just what the doctor ordered---rest, relaxation and away. perfect. Now we are refreshed and ready to go!
Now, if only Doris would call to tell us there is a baby waiting for us..................................

Getting practice putting things together

Trying to stay occupied while in waiting stage, I've been trying to not go overboard and buy everything for the nursery---it's hard to keep walking by a full nursery with no idea when it will be occupied----however, still need to be ready for "the call"....so we purchased the pack-n-play. Our thoughts are to have the baby in our bedroom for the first x # months anyway, so this was a necessary purchase (I have to rationalize things somehow!).  Here is Matthew putting this together.  What you don't see, is once it is all put together, we went to move it to the nursery AND IT WOULDN'T FIT THROUGH THE DOORS!  after catching our breath from laughing so hard, we semi-collapsed it. So, in preparation of parenthood, we are learning that the 15 minute tasks do often take MUCH longer than anticipated!

Far Away Friend comes to visit!

Luckily my friend Paula is a whiz at getting deals and utilizing frequent flyer miles!  So she came down for a weekend to visit from Boston before the baby.  I put her right to work because what are friends for but to help pick out lighting fixtures??? Plus, I knew Paula's great decorating sense, so we headed out and visited WAY too many lighting stores on a quest for new sconces we were having installed in our living room.  It was great to see and catch up with Paula while she was here.  I guess the good side of being a grown up is to be able to still see those friends in far away places.

Wednesday, January 20, 2010

Still Waiting!

I realized I haven't posted anything for a while---and it is only because nothing really new to update!  We are still waiting patiently for the phone to ring.  In the meantime, I've given Matthew a "honey do" list to get some projects completed around the house that needs to get done before the baby arrives! For instance, hanging new ceiling fan in nursery (check/done!), spreading the HUGE pile of mulch sitting in our driveway (we are both doing that --but mulch is like chinese food, you can keep spreading and shoveling, but the pile never seems to get any smaller!), paint the back hallway (ok, that is my task), get new lights installed, etc--you get the picture. 

Just wanted to let you know things are still good --we're still waiting---keep the prayers coming for the Birthmother!  Hopefully we will have news soon!